Okay, here are the three types: Dominant Women – Dominant women are the loose female equivalent of the Needy Alpha. ) she starts issuing orders, standards, rules, and parameters, and she expects the guy to follow these to the letter.
Sometimes she issues them nicely and sweetly with a smile on her face, sometimes she issues them in a very angry, bitchy, or self-righteous manner.
As you might have guessed, Independents are the loose equivalent of an Alpha.
Independent women are the rare women in society who are largely outcome independent need to boss a guy around. They tend to be very busy, all over the place, non-stop, go-go-go gals. So when you hear a woman brag about how she’s a “strong independent woman”, she’s just announced to you she’s a Dominant, an Independent. Unless you’re a beta male who likes to be told what to do, a long-term relationship with this gal is going to be damn near impossible.
Finding a good vanilla woman is difficult, but it's nothing compared to trying to find a Domme.